FAREWELL TARI4DEMOCRACY@GMAIL.COM

Mahtab Bashir
mahtabbashir@gmail.com
Islamabad
0333 53 63 248

    Each loss casts a shadow over my heart, but when it’s someone I hold dear, it feels as though the very air is stolen from my lungs. Tari's untimely departure is a profound loss, resonating deeply not just with his family but also with the countless friends who each considered him their closest companion. His life's legacy can be encapsulated in a brief verse by Baba-e-Punjabi Dr. Faqir Muhammad Faqir, which states,

رکھیں لوکاں نال فقیرا ایسا بہن کھلون

کول ہوویں تے ہسن سارے نہ ہوویں تے رون

    Tari was a true advocate for humanity. With a strong conviction in the principles of democracy, I first connected with him in 2012 when he shared his email address, tari4democracy@gmail.com. Since then, every time I reached out to him, I would greet him by asking, "How are you, Mr. tari4democracy? I heard the Almighty has blessed you with a baby? and there he was again using his right of freedom of expression by saying ........ and ........ and ................!

His signature feature was his infectious smile

   Tariq Hassan (1969-2024), lovingly known as "Tari," passed away at Shaukat Khanum Hospital in Lahore after a brave battle against lung cancer. Despite being diagnosed with stage-four cancer last August, Tariq initially showed signs of recovery, defying the odds. However, his health deteriorated few months ago, ultimately leading to his demise while on life support.

    Sharing fond memories of Tari, Aslam Lurka, a senior journalist and a close friend of Tari, reminisced about their time together at NNI- News Agency in 1998-99. “From the very first day, we met until our final meeting; the moments spent with Tari were truly delightful. Lurka remembered Tari as someone who had a refined sense of style. He exuded a magnetic charm that drew people in. Notably, he never displayed any signs of anger, jealousy, or envy towards others. Tari had a particular fondness for black tea and enjoyed smoking cigarettes. As the conversation shifted to a more somber note, Lurka recounted the time when Tari was diagnosed with Cancer. He vividly remembered inquiring of Tari during a lengthy silence in meetings, asking him jokingly, "Where have you gone to die?" Tari replied lightheartedly, "I am almost there." The news of Tari's illness came as a shock, but when I visited him in the Shifa hospital, Tari was still smiling and laughing.

    As Tari's condition worsened and he was shifted to SK Hospital, I stayed in touch with him over the phone, Lurka continued. A few days before Tari's passing, Safdar Klasra contacted me and informed about Tari's critical condition. Due to some technical issues with Tari's phone, I reached out to Tari's nephew for updates. Our plans to meet in Islamabad and have dinner never materialized, Lukra said. Days later, a text from Azam Khan arrived, announcing Tari's departure at 7:30pm on Thursday, August 15th. With tears in his eyes, Lurka reflected on how he would have never believed that Tari was truly gone if he had not been part of the burial process himself.

    Sajjad Azhar, a fellow journalist, fondly recalls his experiences with Tari, mentioning that their meetings took place in the New and Old Plazas of the Commercial Market in Rawalpindi during 1994 and 1995. These venues were affectionately referred to as “the media hostels” of that era. Tari's older brother, Jedi, also a journalist, when appointed Chief Reporter of ‘The News” brought along a van full of unemployed youth from Shorkot, many of whom would go on to achieve prominence in journalism. Tari made his way to Islamabad during this same time-frame. Azhar describes Tari as a joyful and cheerful presence. A few years back, when Jedi suffered a stroke, it was Tari who provided updates on his brother's condition. “Our last encounter took place about a year ago at the National Press Club. Indeed, everyone must eventually part ways. May Allah elevate your status in Paradise, Mr. Tari,” he prayed.

    Usman Manzoor, another media colleague, reflected on Tari's passing with a heartfelt tribute, sharing that Tari departed from us, leaving a trail of tears behind as he journeyed toward his next destination. Bidding farewell to friends in such a manner is never easy, yet Tari's warmth made it all the more poignant. He radiated happiness, greeted everyone with genuine kindness and respect, and truly found a place within the hearts of all who knew him.

    We often find ourselves pondering what one truly gains by pursuing a career in journalism. Beneath this inquiry lies a harsh reality: approximately 90% of journalists struggle to make ends meet. For those who shine on the illuminated screens of television, it is nearly impossible to survive solely on their income while fulfilling their responsibilities. However, I believe there is a singular and valuable insight to be drawn from this challenging profession. While Tari may or may not have gained material wealth through his journey in journalism, he has undeniably forged deeper and more genuine friendships than many might expect. This sentiment resonates not just with me, but with nearly every journalist, who is enriched by the presence of sincere, selfless, and loving companions in this field.

    When I started my journey as a junior reporter at The News, the name Javed Jedi came up in conversations every day. At that point, Jedi was residing in U.S, yet his friendship was frequently a topic of discussion in Islamabad. Eventually, I had the chance to meet Tari, who turned out to be Jedi's brother. Since that moment, Tari has cultivated a unique place in my heart that is truly one of a kind.

    Manzoor remarked that Jedi and Tari traveled to Islamabad from Shorkot. While they may not have made any financial gains, they certainly gained a wealth of affectionate friendships. The true treasures of both brothers lie in their friendships, as they themselves are incredibly sincere and loving individuals.

    Today, Tari succumbed to his struggle with cancer. His friends are bewildered, grappling with the reality that such a genuine soul has departed far too soon. It’s profoundly challenging to bid farewell to someone who dedicated his life to nurturing friendships. Farewell, Tari! No one can ever take your place. Your spirit will forever linger in our hearts. May the Almighty Allah grant you a place of honor in Paradise.

Tari alongside his media colleagues on the day of NPC polls

    Imran Naeem, a media specialist and a close friend of Tari, remarked that Tari's captivating smile had the power to light up any space he entered. He effortlessly built friendships wherever he traveled. A genuine companion, he was always present whenever you needed him. "Your words, your voice, and your fervor will resonate in our hearts for eternity. You will be profoundly missed and will remain forever in our memories, Tari," he said.

    Tariq's illustrious journey in journalism commenced at The Pakistan Times, where his keen insights and steadfast commitment quickly garnered him respect within the field. He then advanced to The News as a sub-editor, where he continued to make a noteworthy impact. After his time in journalism, Tariq shifted gears into the development sector, taking on the role of Senior Media Officer for both the Trust for Democratic Education and Accountability (TDEA) and the Free and Fair Election Network (FAFEN). In these capacities, he concentrated on fostering media relations and spearheading initiatives that aimed to enhance democratic accountability in Pakistan. Tariq was well-known for his cheerful demeanor and optimistic perspective on life, traits that endeared him to his colleagues and friends alike. 

    Revered and cherished by anyone fortunate enough to know him, Tari was buried in his hometown Shorkot, leaving behind a remarkable legacy of kindness and love.

Writer is a journalist and a student of M.Phil at Quaid-i-Azam University, Islamabad.